Sutton Coldfield dad-of-three with brain cancer dies weeks after marrying love of his life

A dad-of-three with aggressive brain cancer died weeks after fulfilling his final wish of marrying the love of his life. Paul Jeffries, from Sutton Coldfield, was with his partner Kelly for 17 years before he got down on one knee in January 2019.

The 40-year-old was diagnosed with glioblastoma – which has a typical prognosis of 12 to 18 months – in May 2017 and decided not to waste another minute. Paul and Kelly, who have three children together, started putting together their big day but the pandemic meant their plans were cancelled.

Paul, a huge Blues fan, defied expectations and lived for another four years while enduring two craniotomies, radiotherapy and chemotherapy. But when his health declined, the couple decided to wed in an intimate ceremony surrounded by their children and three guests at Sutton Coldfield’s Lea Marston Hotel.

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Paul, a line engineer, died in January 2021 – just 12 weeks after his wedding. Kelly, a former cleaner for Royal Mail, said: “We’d previously spoken about marriage and after he was diagnosed he proposed to me.”

The 39-year-old added: “We planned it all out and had everything booked but then Covid restrictions saw our arrangements cancelled. It was our wish to marry before he died and as Paul became really poorly, we were able to get married with special circumstances.”

The couple’s three children – Leah, 18, Josh, 16, and Charlie, 10 – wore blue on the big day in a nod to Paul’s beloved Birmingham City. Kelly described the day as “truly the best under the circumstances”.

She said: “I was emotional throughout but having Paul by my side was so special and to be married was what we both wanted.”

According to Brain Tumour Research, just 12 per cent of those diagnosed with a brain tumour like Paul’s survive beyond five years. Although Kelly researched different options to help prolong his life, Paul never made it to the London clinical trial he was put forward for before he died.

Kelly took care of him in his final weeks as his condition grew worse. She said: “Paul quickly lost mobility on the left side of his body which meant he dragged his foot. Before seeing a loved one experience a brain tumour, I never understood what exactly it meant.

“I wish I still didn’t. We were unsuspecting victims of brain cancer and had to navigate our way through a terminal diagnosis where there is a huge lack of investment into research.”

Kelly shared her story in a bid to raise awareness for Brain Tumour Research. Taking place on Friday, March 29, the charity’s annual Wear A Hat Day fundraiser encourages people to don their favourite hat to raise money for life-saving brain cancer research.

Katrina Jones, head of community fundraising at Brain Tumour Research, added: “While Paul’s story is heartbreaking, we’re grateful to Kelly for taking the time to share it with us.” According to the charity, 16,000 people in the UK are diagnosed with a brain tumour each year. To donate to the annual Wear A Hat Day for Brain Tumour Research click here.