Will warring William and Harry ever make peace? Royal expert says ‘reconciliation may never happen’ after ‘frosty’ encounter at their uncle Lord Fellowes’ funeral

A ‘reconciliation may never happen’ between feuding brothers Prince William and Prince Harry, a royal expert has claimed, alleging that the future King is likely ‘hurt’ by his ‘brother’s betrayals and snipes’.

Michael Cole, former BBC royal correspondent, said that although the pair both attended the memorial service for their uncle Lord Fellowes yesterday it appears there was ‘no reunion’ between the pair.

While he was not at the memorial himself, Mr Cole noted how the pair were said to have ‘sat apart’ and ‘did not look at each other’ during the service. He also claimed that mourners described the ‘atmosphere’ around the brothers as having been fairly ‘frosty’.

‘If Prince Harry imagined that this secret dash and sudden appearance might start to thaw the ice cap that has frozen between them, he was going to be greatly disappointed,’ Mr Cole told MailOnline today. ‘Prince William did not look at him, let alone acknowledge his presence.’

The royal expert’s remarks come after the vicar who conducted the service confirmed that the warring royal brothers walked ‘a few people apart’ as they left 14th century St Mary’s Church in Snettisham, Norfolk.

The vicar also said he did not recall Harry and William speaking to each other at a reception after the service, but said there were a ‘lot of family members and friends speaking to them’. 

The service at St Mary’s Church, pictured today, was attended by about 300 people yesterday

Michael Cole, (pictured) former BBC royal correspondent, said that although the pair both attended the memorial service for their uncle Lord Fellowes yesterday it appears there was ‘no reunion’ between the pair

Mr Cole said that interactions between Harry and William yesterday ‘were not just minimal, they were invisible’.

‘This was not a happy meeting of two brothers who, as boys, could not have been closer,’ he told MailOnline.

‘This was no reunion. They sat apart and did not look at each other. On a sunny day, the atmosphere around the two brothers was frosty, said one mourner.’ 

He added: ‘As things are at present, reconciliation may never happen, such is the hurt Prince William feels at his brother’s betrayals and snipes in interviews, a television series and his ghost-written book ‘Spare’, the biggest-selling ‘autobiography’ ever published.’

Mr Cole’s recount of the service seemingly echoed that of Reverend Dan Tansey, the at vicar St Mary’s Church, who admitted he was surprised to see both William and Harry at the service which was attended by around 300 people yesterday.

He told MailOnline today: ‘The memorial service was yesterday. The private funeral took place earlier in the week with just [close] family.’

Describing the appearance of the estranged siblings, Reverend Tansey said: ‘Yes, it was quite a surprise to me.’ 

Asked if Harry and William were sitting near each other in the church, he added: ‘I don’t know because I was in the vestry.

‘When I came out to start the service, they had arrived, but I didn’t even know they were there until after the service when I was meeting people on the way out.

‘They came out and shook my hand, and said hello. I couldn’t see where they were sat in the church.

‘I was just greeting one person at a time as they came out. They came out a few people apart.’

Describing the service, he said: ‘I am at the front of the church with my glasses on and I can see the front row, and that’s about it.’

Reverend Tansey continued: ‘I had been preparing for a good half hour beforehand, so I didn’t see anyone coming through the front door.

Prince William and Harry at the unveiling of a statue of their mother Diana at Kensington Palace in July 2021. The event was attended by Lady Jane Fellowes, wife of Lord Fellowes

The service was at the 14th century St Mary’s Church in Snettisham, Norfolk, pictured today

Lord Fellows at the High Court in February 2008 to give evidence in Princess Diana’s inquest

The interior of St Mary’s Church in Snettisham is pictured today, following yesterday’s funeral

Reverend Dan Tansey conducted the service at St Mary’s Church in Snettisham yesterday

‘It was a lovely service and people wanted to be there for someone who was really well-respected in Snettisham.

‘It was only as I was thanking the congregation as they left that Prince William was shaking my hand, and then very quickly after that, so did Prince Harry.

‘It was a surprise but a really pleasant one that they had both come, but maybe less shocking that William was there.

‘On the way out, they both said thank you for the service and I thanked them for coming. At the reception afterwards, there was a very relaxed and cordial atmosphere.

‘I don’t recollect them speaking to each other but there were a lot of family members and friends speaking to them.

‘It would have meant a lot to Lord Fellowes to have them both at the service. He loved them both very much.’

Queen Elizabeth II and Lord Fellowes aboard the royal yacht Britannia in Florida in May 1991

Lord Fellowes was played by actor Andrew Havill (centre) in Netflix series The Crown 

Lord Fellowes had three children – Alexander (left, on his wedding day with Alexandra Finlay in 2013), Laura and Eleanor (both right, at Harry and Meghan’s wedding in Windsor in 2018)

Reverend Tansey said a potentially more formal celebration of Lord Fellowes’s  life was still being considered to take place in London at a later date.

Married to the late Princess Diana’s sister, Lady Jane, he was also a long-time Buckingham Palace courtier who worked for the late Queen Elizabeth II for 22 years until 1999.

It was a period which covered both the break-down of his sister-in-law’s marriage to the then Prince Charles and her tragic death in 1997.

Reverend Tansey said of a future service: ‘I believe it is still on the cards, but because I am only the parish vicar locally, I wouldn’t be involved in anything in London.

‘The last I heard it was still on the cards to have some kind of formal memorial. Whether it would be at the Lords or something, I really don’t know. 

Lord Fellowes marries Lady Jane Spencer at the Guards’ Chapel at Wellington Barracks in London in 1978. To the right of Lady Fellowes is her sister who later became Princess Diana

Lord Fellowes with the King, then Prince Charles, at Epsom Racecourse in Surrey in 1993

Lord Fellowes with Lady Jane Fellowes (right) and their daughter Laura Jane Fellowes (left) at the wedding of William Duckworth-Chad and Lucy Greenwell in Sudbourne, Suffolk, in 2011

‘As far as I understand it is still a plan. I’m sorry I can’t be more helpful. I have to think of their privacy.’

Describing the turnout at the memorial service however, he added: ‘It was a full house and it’s a fair-sized church. It was around about 300 people. There was a lot of family and friends. It was by invitation as far as I understand.’

Reverend Tansey admitted he had not been told in advance that both princes were going to the service.

He said: ‘Thankfully, I had not been informed so I wasn’t able to say anything to people who kept asking me about it. I was in blissful ignorance.’

Reverend Tansey added: ‘It was wonderful that the princes could both be there to support their aunt and cousins.’

And a church warden, who declined to be named, told MailOnline: ‘It was wonderful that both Princes were able to attend their uncle’s memorial service yesterday at St Mary’s Church.

The wedding of Lord Fellowes and Diana’s sister Lady Jane Spencer in London in 1978 

Lord Fellowes (top left) with Princess Diana and her family in 1995. Sitting (from left): Diana, Lady Sarah McCorquodale (sister), Frances Shand Kydd (mother), and Jane Fellowes (sister). Standing (from left): Lord Fellowes, Charles, Earl Spencer (brother) and Neil McCorquodale

Lord Fellowes is pictured (back right) at the wedding of Prince Charles and Diana in 1981

‘The service was a lovely family occasion celebrating the life of such a special man. Many friends were also present and also many members of the St Mary’s Church family.’

Yesterday it emerged that despite his PR team previously guiding members of the media that he did not plan to return to the UK for events to mark his uncle’s death, citing ongoing ‘security’ fears, Harry flew out of the US on Tuesday and slipped into the UK without fanfare.

He then travelled to Norfolk to attend the family memorial.

Harry’s spokesman failed to response to a request for comment about his attendance.

Kensington Palace declined to comment on behalf of William, citing it as a private matter.